I,Me & Myself

                  I am special; let me unbosom myself if you don't believe me.

There are no ordinary people in this world.Everyone is unique.I am special in my own ways..I am always confident about whatever I do..I love to sing(in shower)  but not in a talent show...I love to dance in the rain but not in the auditorium...I love to live life to the fullest,I love to do all sorts of stupid things...whatever  makes me happy..because I dont care what people have to comment on that..It happend recently when I was going back home from college that it started raining,and my college bag was fully loaded with my books and registers.. thanks to FASTRACK for making waterproof bags and watches , I could enjoy the rain without getting my books in trouble.

Life is uncertain...because this world may not be the same tommorrow because different people have  different opinion...and being yourself in all the situations of life..is the best one can do to make life worth living.People call me crazy,fun loving but whatever the situation be..I keep everyone around me happy.
My life doesn't stops when I lose something...I am unique because i've learnt how to move on...I know how to move with the flow of life..I believe in myself..Life is uncertain..sometimes it gives us the best and sometimes leaves us alone in the  middle of the road without any vehicle to move on ahead in life.This is when we have to create our own  vehicle to reach our destination because we cannot acheive success without hardwork.  Sometimes we have to compromise when things are not working according to us but I dont believe in the word "COMPROMISE" because we reach our destination only when we are DESTINED to it(we are the creator of our own canvas) and if we are really working hard(struggling)  to reach our destination .We compromise when we do not have the ability to perform.

I smile in harder times as well because in this cruel world there is no MARKET for our sorrows,believe me or not but this is very true.

It was Rishika's 24th birthday.She was excited for her birthday from past one month.Her special guest, for her, was her so called boyfriend Ankit followed by her close friends.For me Rishika is like my sister and I don't like her boyfriend at all,i've told this to her hundred times but I must tell you this girl is blindly in love with this guy.Ankit was a familiar face in Rishika's house,her parents knew about their affair.Rishika wanted to get married to him and always wanted to meet his parents but Ankit always resisted..I dont know the reason of his resistance...may be because he wasn't well settled..or may be because he wasn't loyal to her.Had he loved her sincerely,he would have fulfilled all her wishes.So I decided to talk to Ankit and I met him  a month before the birthday party and I asked him whether he wanted Rishika to be his life partner..he paused for sometime and I...understood his silence.I told him how much she cares for him,how much she loved him..obviously he knew all this..but I made him realise the importance of relationships and the importance of certain people in our lives,I told him that he won't get a girl like Rishika,because this girl always took care of his needs.She was a perfect girl for any guy.There was something about my conversation with him that made him realised how important this girl was..in his life.

Now comes the birthday party of damsel Rishika.I had plans to surprise her.I asked her so-called boyfriend Ankit to make her feel special as it was a special day for her.I reached her house early morning at about 6am alongwith Paras,Ishant,Samaira, and ofcourse with a cake and a bouquet as she loves flowers.It was a surprise for Rishika because she wasn't expecting us to be there at her place early in the morning.She was so happy to see us all...Rishi's birthday party was scheduled to start at 12noon and guess what??Ankit had come with his parents and introduced Rishika to his parents and they liked her so much,obviously because she is a wonderful girl.Ankit was the one to give her the best gift on her birthday-Ankit announced his engagement with Rishika in front of both the families.Rishika looked at me...surprised..amazed...happy...tears of happiness rolling down her eyes..i could see the happiness in her eyes.She hugged me so tightly and I was so happy for her.I deeply felt that my conversion with Ankit made all the difference.They have plans to get married soon...!!!

For me apart from my respected teacher's,life has been a teacher  at all the stages.Apart from learning from the teacher's in school and college,i have learnt a lot from my life as well.Teacher's TOLD me that success cannot be achieved without hardwork but life and experience TAUGHT me that success cannot be achieved without hardwork.I was in class tenth when I realised that i'll soon be facing the so called-"board exams".My course started in the month of april and my board examz were scheduled in march of the following year.Initially I was a bit over confident and wasn't taking my academics seriously but later on in the month of January I realised how important it was for me to score a good percentage because otherwise I wont be able to face my family and friends.Then in January I got tensed because I just had two months to prepare for those seven subjects.I started studying seriously, I sacrificed all my comforts,I restricted myself from going to parties,I use to sleep only for four hours whereas earlier I use to sleep for 8-10 hours.Then finally the examz started.I had no idea whether the sun has risen or set.It was only my parents who were taking care of my diet and other things.I use to sit in my room and study,and my loving father who had so much expectations from me use to serve me the food at my study table.Examz went on for a month.All of us were relieved in the month of april.Then it was 26th may when our result was to be declared,that was the most critical day of my life because it was only after that I could decide my career(science,non-science) for further studies.Me and my family were expecting a score of about 55-60% It was 5.30 pm..when my heart started beating so fast,result was to be declared at 6pm sharp..but the result came out at 5.55pm,those days I wasn't having access to intenet at my home so I had already asked Paras to let me know my result on time.Paras called me up at 6pm sharp...and told me "Naina....u have a total of 430/500"...i was shocked...and...surprised...and speechless.I told Paras to check my marks once again.Paras was the topper of our class.Paras confirmed me my marks...I had a percentage of 86.and Paras scored 90%...He wasn't happy with his score and I was on cloud nine.You see it was all the hardwork of those three months that I was able to score well.This is when I realised that hardwork is the ladder for success.This is what life taught me,this is how I learn thing.and this is what I am.Life is a teacher and will teach different lessons in different situations.

The lenses through which we perceive the world are coloured by our own ideology,experiences.